The less I give...the more I get..

I have decided that with men, less is more. The less I give, the more I get.....Why does this seem to happen?

Lets take a man that you truly adore.. there isn't a thing in the world that you wouldn't do for him. You are very considerate when it comes to him, and anything that he may need or want..and what do you get in return? Not much.. Not many phone calls, not many nights out, little or no booty spanking... so you conclude that the effort is just too great for the return. So, you just stop giving. Not completely, but for the most part...a smile here, a wink there....Simple, right? WRONG!

It seems as if NOW, he wants to call, go out, spank the booty, hang out....so here is my theory: I think that MOST men just don't like available women. They want everything on their own terms, they don't want to feel like they are being chased after. They crave attention, but when they get it, they act like they are being bothered. They want to chase the pussy around, they want to be challenged. They want to be in control. Women are reeled in and then given slack in the line, once the man figures she is too far out, reel 'em in again..and on, and on, and on.

The biggest problem with this is there are so many women out there that are so liberated, that they know exactly what they want and from whom. They know that the pussy is a powerful tool, and they use that to their advantage. They know pretty much what they want and how much they are willing to sacrafice to get it. But once a woman realizes they are fighting a losing battle they will cut the line and move on. This makes men wonder.."what happened?"

The answer to this is simple. Make sure the man that you give all your attention is giving you the same attention in return. That you are getting an equal return for your efforts. This does not take long to figure out. Once you know that you are not getting the attention and time you deserve, cut the line, and don't look back! There are too many men out there to waste time on someone that does not have the same ultimate goal as us.

So don't give it all so soon, make sure you really want what it is you're chasing after, because sometimes, we ultimately end up with something we don't really want anyway.