Forced to take Responsibility
I was sitting in the court room waiting for him.
~Damn~
His ass is always late. For everything. If he even shows up.
It's disrespectful and annoying.
Court started at 1:00. It was already 1:45.
When baby daddy walked in the door, I was shocked. He looked like a
fucking bum. This man, who normally looks like Morris Chestnut stepping
off the pages GQ looked like he was a homeless crack whore.
He's a trip. His normally pressed pants were replaced with navy blue sweatpants,
with bleach stains all over the front of them.
His Hilfiger, or Ralph Lauren..well, that was a dirty white T-shirt
and Old Navy hood zip sweat jacket.
He did not shave. He looked..nasty.
I was embarrassed to have to admit to the court that I had, in fact, made a baby
with this dirty man. ~LOL~
I scooted over so that he could sit next to me. There were probably 4 other people
in the court room. "What the fuck is wrong with you?" I asked louder than I
expected. I knew I was loud because the people in front of me turned around
And looked. He just laughed. "I ain't got no money!" he said with a smirk.
I just shook my head at him. That brutha is ALWAYS tryna get over.
ALWAYS. I told him.."Ya know..KARMA is a bitch!"
"What is THAT?" he questioned
"Don't worry..you'll find out.." was all I said.
I scooted over, because I did not want to be next to him
Anymore. I have nothing to say to him right now. He scooted closer to me.
"Let's make an agreement for support..just me and you..fuck this court shit!"
he said. I gave him the look as if to say "unbelievable!"
He was acting like we were Bonnie and Clyde again, and it was US against THEM.
But it wasn't.
It was ME against HIM and he was about to get screwed.
And we both knew it.
When all was said and done..baby daddy has to come out the pocket..BIG!
But the amount of money don't mean SHIT to me. I would have been satisfied
With $50.00 per month. I am not looking to get rich.
I am only looking for consistancy.
I am not that baby mama and I never will be.
But the boy is now 10 years old. And it's time for his father to
take responsibility.
Even if he had to be forced.
4 Comments:
So sad they have to be forced to take care of their children. I am glad you stuck with the courts!
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VERY HAPPY ALL TURNED OUT IN YOUR FAVOR!!! ITS JUST SO UNFORTUNATE THAT SOME MEN ABSOLUTELY DO NOT WANT TO TAKE CARE OF THEIR CHILDREN FINANCIALLY...IT INFURIATES ME!!!! WELL, U GO GURL!!! I KNOW THE PROCESS!
i have to go to court in July, but i get to do it over the phone. its in another city. i wonder if her will make the trip? but yeah men a crazy like that. they think we are stupid when they ask to go outside the court. i couldn't trust him when we were together to take care of his kids thats why i had to file for support. dumb ass sometimes men are so stupid. i've gotten money 5 times in the past year and half. he asked me to get it lowered... i'm like you're not paying ANYTHING right now why would i do that? just because he comes up in there looking broke doesn;t mean they don't have his records that show how much he makes. how dumb was that!
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