Baby Daddy and Custody of the boy.
My Fucking Baby Daddy.
Oh. MY. GOD.
Okay. So this mother-fucker actually has the NERVE to call me at work today to tell me that he is filing for joint custody of the boy. Joint fucking custody? Are you kidding me? He proceeded to tell me that I know nothing about raising a boy child into a man. And that he is his father, and that a boy needs to be with his father.
1/2 of the time.
Kiss my mother fucking ass. That's what I tell him. Go to hell, mother-fucker.
You see, the issues are not that fucking simple. I know people think that yeah, a boy needs to see his father. (which he does, when it's convenient for HIM, which is usually 10 pm, when the boy is in bed). But I am not even about to get into this. He and I know the reasons why things are the way they are. We both know that child support, despite a case filed with the courts, is paid when he wants to pay it. We know that his work history is scattered, and that his residence is unstable. We know that he has a new girlfriend every other week. We know that he gets all his girlfriends pregnant and then leaves them (or, as in my case, they leave him because he is a CHEATER, LIAR, and THIEF!, not to mention FRAUD!) We know that he falls asleep AT THE WHEEL. And has had over 20 car ACCIDENTS in the 10 years that I have known him. One with the boy in the car, in the FRONT SEAT, NO SEATBELT, and was injured and had to go to the hospital! We know that he fell asleep while he had the boy at the pool (one with NO LIFEGUARD ON DUTY!..the boy was 6 years old!)
Baby daddy. Do you know what you are doing? Do you know what you are asking for?
You want to tell ME that I have NO CLUE how to raise a boy into a man?..Well, let's think about that for a second. Do you THINK that I WANT HIM to be taught how to be a man FROM YOU? One who has always run out on their responsibilities? One who can't keep a job? or keep a girlfriend? One who does not take care of their children--one who DENIES PATERNITY to children that have YOUR LAST NAME? How can a ANYONE DENY their own flesh and blood? One who doesn't understand that being a father means doing what's best for YOUR CHILD--not what's best for YOU? You could never on your BEST DAY do what I do--each and every day!
Why don't you go bother one of your other baby-mama's? (one of the other 5 that you have besides me?)
Why don't you get joint custody of one of them other kids?
Or better yet--kiss my fucking ass. Good luck baby daddy. You're gonna need it.
posted by Miss Scarlet @ 10:33 AM
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My son's father tried that ONCE. But you know- it was only because he wanted me to drop my child support case against him, and when I wouldn't, he threatened to take Ryan from me.
Oh baby please- I wish you would try!
Girl, he's blowing smoke- tryin to sound like a 'man'.
I told Ryan's dad that if he really REALLY wanted to go into court with me over custody- I was all game- and that we'd just bring my son in and have the judge ask him to point his father out. He wouldn't be able to. Case closed.
Yeah- we are too much alike. We are gonna have to exchange those numbers. Ha ha!
You know, it's funny that you say that.
Before he mentioned the whole custody issue, he asked me if I was dropping the child support case. "no", was my answer. I mean, they don't even have his address. If he is all about man-ing the fuck up, and taking responsibility then why isn't his FIRST step to go to the child support court and say.."here I am"..instead of running like a fucking punk. Anyway. yeah..we need to chat.
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