I made a baby with a black man..who has something to say?
Race. and making babies.
Why does this shit make me so mad? I never knew that so many black folks were in such a uproar about black men and white women making babies. I have never been confronted by a black woman either directly or indirectly about any issue involving the fact that my son's father is black, or the fact that I date black men.
So, I got to thinking...
Is this an issue that black people talk about only amongst themselves? Or write about in their blogs? Specifically, how horrid it is for a white woman to have babies with black men? How a white woman could never properly raise a child that has a black father?
I wonder if ANY of these women that constantly bitch about this to their friends and talk mad shit about it in their blogs have ever confronted a white woman on this.
TO HER FACE.
I am not opening a debate. I do not need anyone to point out all the reasons why I shouldn't have made a baby with a black man. I don't want to talk about hair (I have a SON, he goes to the barber shop). I do not want to talk about identity and what my son needs to be taught about being black.
I do not really give a fuck what ANYONE thinks about what I do, what color my son's father is, or who I date. I am just wondering..if so many people have issues with this...who is gonna be the first to call me out to my face.
Don't be a punk bitch. (wo)man the fuck up.
posted by Miss Scarlet @ 5:54 PM
3 Comments:
I think your blog is awesome. You are honest and funny..
Screw what anyone thinks.
For some reason, this has always bothered me. Not to the fact that I harp on it, treat people rudely or anything of the sort, but my personal opinion is that I may not agree with it and/or like it, but I do believe everyone is entitled to love whomever they chose. And at the end of the day, it's your happiness that's important, not what everyone else thinks.
it doesn't bother me, but it seems like you got the "stereotypical" black man. it's rough for kids these days that grow up without dads. i was lucky enough to know mine. p.s. i am in love with a non-black man and i think you should be with whomever makes you happy. i would not hesitate to marry him or have his children because he makes me happy. don't worry about what others think. love your blog.
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