You wanna know if I am doing "what" with "who"?--part 2
Ok.
With all the technology these days, why is it that men still get caught up in something that they are not tryin to get caught up in. Something that not only involves them--but an innocent bystander, as well. (okay, maybe not innocent.. but something a whole lot like it)
If I get another call from someone's wife-girlfriend-woman-or baby mama--I am just gonna quit life. I mean--come'on guys! I can only go by what YOU tell me--so if you tell me that you are a single guy--I will proceed as if you are a single guy. So imagine my shock when my phone rings and it is a woman. A woman that is somehow associated with you. A woman who wants answers. A woman that is pissed! A woman that, if you had any common courtesy, I would be prepared for.
I am not really the one for this kind of bullshit...see previous post with the same name... Lucky for her, I was not at home. What could I possibly tell her that she does not already know?
I am pretty sure that they are not together. Not just by what he says, but also based on the fact that he sleeps at my place 3 nights a week, and has for the last 6 months. If this broad is puttin' up with that..then that's her fault. Not mine. Not his.
Ladies--holla at your man..this is his shit. HIS. And why are you doing this again? You need to grow the fuck up. This is not high school. We are grown. And why the hell are you creeping in his phone anyway? And why the hell are you makin' calls? to random people? How dumb does that sound. Repeat this to yourself: "I am about to call a phone number that I have no idea who it belongs to, I have no idea who is gonna answer the phone, and I have no idea what I am about to find out." Clearly, if you don't see how fucking stupid what you are about to do sounds..then you really got issues.
Men--please--keep your women under control. If you can't then keep my number out of your cell phone. Do somethin' because I am not havin' this. I am not fighting anyone over your ass. I am not explaining why my number is in your cell phone. I am not saving you. I won't throw you under the bus either..I gotta protect my investment--to a certain extent.
I don't bring drama to your door. So don't bring it to mine.
If you can't comply with this simple rule..
then you got-to go.
posted by Miss Scarlet @ 9:14 AM
4 Comments:
you know I really don't get why women feel the need to take it to the alleged "other woman". How about you get a spine, regulate the RIGHT person, and then figure out why it is you end up with men that don't give a sh*t about you!...tacky heffas really irk me too.
and why do we have to start asking people to DEFINE single, because "I'm NOT married", just ain't cutting it. LOL
like your blog!
@wise diva I agree. This is all about wanting to place the blame somewhere else! Too many people don't want to take the responsibility for their relationships! I read your blog, too! That is too funny
How about this- many times, the 'other woman' knows full well what she's doing too- no, she doesn't owe the girlfriend/wife/whatever any courtesy- but come on- when are we, as women, going to stop helping guys play us ALL like this? When I was fucked around on, guess what? I sure did call that .02 hoe he was screwing- to tell her she could have his ass. She knew the situation and about him being with me, she chose to get involved anyway, she got drama. I'm the one that was left out in the cold, not knowing shit was going on until I came across some info.....we all have a responsibility- and I'm at the point where dick just ain't that damn important- someone wanna roll up on me and I find out he's got a girl- he can step the fuck on- because if he can disrespect her, then he can disrespect me and I'm not having all that.
@ anonymous--point well taken. I have been cheated on as well--being cheated on SUCKS and I am sorry that it happened to you..but I think perhaps you are missing my point..which is..I am tired of women calling me being SHITTY AND NASTY, yelling in the damn phone..expecting some sort of answer from me. ABOUT THEIR MAN. I can not help what your man is doing. I am just asking for women to stop turning to me to confirm their fears. Take that shit up with your man. Let him explain it to you. I do not know you. I am not in a relationship with you. That's all I am saying.
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